“HOW DO I LOVE THEE? LET ME COUNT THE WAYS…..”
For you, is love something you feel that motivates you to do things or something you do that enables you to feel loving?
Feelings change, are affected by adversities, and just dissipate over time. If you only behave in loving ways when you feel like it, the long-term projection for your relationship might not be as rosy as you’d like.
What do you do every day to “love” your career, nourish and support it, and think about its well-being, past, present, and future?
Do you schedule the time to do what you need for your business or career even if you’d rather relax by yourself? Do you get input from experts? Go to conferences that are inconvenient? Do some things you don’t enjoy because the payoff is worth it?
What do you do to “love” your sweetheart?
What makes your love feel loved?
We all enjoy each of these love languages but in different degrees.
Find the three strongest languages your sweetheart speaks and spend enough time to let them know that their happiness is equal to your profit margin. Just as with business, random energy won’t be nearly as effective as focused, attentive actions or behavior that shows your true motivation.